persiflage
noun·/ˈpɝː.sɪ.flɑːʒ/
Light, mocking banter; teasing that glances off seriousness while still making its point. Persiflage keeps a smile. Critique disguised as play, dismissal dressed as wit.
Their persiflage sounded friendly until she noticed how reliably it landed on whatever mattered to her.
Etymology
From French persiflage, from persifler "to mock," built on siffler "to whistle, hiss." Mockery as a kind of whistling past, a sound that pretends not to stop.
Related Words
banterthe benign end of the spectrum
railleryteasing, often sharper than banter
satiremore structured, more moralizing
mordicantbiting; persiflage’s darker cousin