upbraid
verb·/ʌpˈbreɪd/
Reproach sharply. Scold with moral emphasis, as though lifting a fault into view and holding it there. Upbraid is interpersonal, rebuke with heat.
She upbraided him gently, which somehow made the rebuke harder to escape.
Etymology
From Old English, with a sense of “bring forth” or “reproach,” braided from roots meaning to “up” and to “brandish” or “suddenly bring.” The word still feels like an act of raising.
Related Words
rebukeclose near-synonym
reprimandmore official, procedural
chidemilder, often affectionate
reproachbroader, often quieter